2 iphones, one will sync and one will not sync to itunes

Question

My wife's iphone will sync, no problem. I plug my iphone in, doesn't recognize it. Tried everything, authorizing computer, disabling firewall, itunes latest version, and nothing seems to work. Help!

Answer 1

Syncing your phones to the same iCloud account won't cause them to both ring all the time, it only puts the same contacts, calendars, and other synced data on the phone.  The phones will only ring with someone calls the number associated with the phone.
If you want to stop using iCloud on one or both of the phones, go to Settings>iCloud, tap Delete Account, then choose Keep On My iPhone when prompted.  This will disconnect them from iCloud and keep a copy of the synced data on the phone.