I'm having trouble connecting as well. HELP!!!

Question

Here is what I get when I run diagnostics. I have flushed my DNS settings, made sure iTunes could get through my firewall, turned off the pop-up blocker. I don't know what to do:
Microsoft Windows 7 x64 Home Premium Edition (Build 7600)
Hewlett-Packard HP G71 Notebook PC
iTunes 9.0.2.25
QuickTime 7.6.5
FairPlay 1.5.23
Apple Application Support 1.1.0
iPod Updater Library 9.0d11
CD Driver 2.2.0.1
CD Driver DLL 2.1.1.1
Apple Mobile Device 2.6.0.32
Apple Mobile Device Driver 1.45.0.0
Bonjour 1.0.6.2 (118.5)
iTunes Serial Number 95918B78B5FA0770
Current user is not an administrator.
The current local date and time is 2009-12-19 00:56:34.
iTunes is not running in safe mode.
Video Display Information
Intel Corporation, Mobile Intel(R) 4 Series Express Chipset Family
Intel Corporation, Mobile Intel(R) 4 Series Express Chipset Family
** External Plug-ins Information **
No external plug-ins installed.
** Network Connectivity Tests **
Network Adapter Information
Adapter Name: {61F39471-98CA-41E1-AD3B-C104083C9174}
Description: Intel(R) WiFi Link 1000 BGN
IP Address: 192.168.1.2
Subnet Mask: 255.255.255.0
Default Gateway: 192.168.1.1
DHCP Enabled: Yes
DHCP Server: 192.168.1.1
Lease Obtained: Sat Dec 19 00:52:22 2009
Lease Expires: Sun Dec 20 00:52:22 2009
DNS Servers: 192.168.1.1
192.168.1.1
Adapter Name: {3DC90021-B8C9-42BC-B7FB-B45A8BA8812E}
Description: Realtek PCIe FE Family Controller
IP Address: 0.0.0.0
Subnet Mask: 0.0.0.0
Default Gateway: 0.0.0.0
DHCP Enabled: Yes
DHCP Server:
Lease Obtained: Wed Dec 31 19:00:00 1969
Lease Expires: Wed Dec 31 19:00:00 1969
DNS Servers:
Active Connection: LAN Connection
Connected: Yes
Online: Yes
Using Modem: No
Using LAN: Yes
Using Proxy: No
SSL 3.0 Support: Enabled
TLS 1.0 Support: Disabled
Firewall Information
Windows Firewall is on.
iTunes is enabled in Windows Firewall.
Connection attempt to Apple web site was unsuccessful.
The network connection timed out.
Connection attempt to iTunes Store was unsuccessful.
The network connection timed out.
Secure connection attempt to iTunes Store was unsuccessful.
The network connection timed out.
Secure connection attempt to iPhone activation server unsuccessful.
The network connection timed out.
iTunes has never successfully accessed iTunes store.
** CD/DVD Drive Tests **
LowerFilters: PxHlpa64 (2.0.0.0),
UpperFilters: GEARAspiWDM (2.2.0.1),
E: hp DVD RW AD-7581S, Rev 4H73
Drive is empty.
** iPod/iPhone Connectivity Tests **
iPodService 9.0.2.25 is currently running.
iTunesHelper 9.0.2.25 is currently running.
Apple Mobile Device service 2.50.39.0 is currently running.
Universal Serial Bus Controllers:
Intel(R) ICH9 Family USB Universal Host Controller - 2934. Device is working properly.
Intel(R) ICH9 Family USB Universal Host Controller - 2935. Device is working properly.
Intel(R) ICH9 Family USB Universal Host Controller - 2936. Device is working properly.
Intel(R) ICH9 Family USB Universal Host Controller - 2937. Device is working properly.
Intel(R) ICH9 Family USB Universal Host Controller - 2938. Device is working properly.
Intel(R) ICH9 Family USB Universal Host Controller - 2939. Device is working properly.
Intel(R) ICH9 Family USB2 Enhanced Host Controller - 293A. Device is working properly.
Intel(R) ICH9 Family USB2 Enhanced Host Controller - 293C. Device is working properly.
No FireWire (IEEE 1394) Host Controller found.
Connected Device Information:
MINDY'S IPO (F:\), iPod nano (4th Generation) running firmware version 1.0.3
Serial Number: YM9093F73QS
Bus Speed: 61440
** iPhone/iPod Touch Sync Tests **
No iPhone or iPod found.

Answer 1

Thanks already tried it and it won't work still. My iPad does the same when I try to connect? The only thing I haven't tried yet is to remove and reinstall iTunes. For fear of loosing my library?
Any suggestions?