Syncing specific iCal calendars through "push"

Question

After upgrading to 3G, I no longer see an option to sync specific iCal calendars through MobileMe push. I have 6 calendars set up in iCal, but only wish to sync 2 of these to my iPhone. However, when push is enabled, it looks like all or nothing. iTunes says to modify push settings in the iPhone, but I see no option to enable/disable a specific calendar. In MobileMe, syncing is enabled for calendars.

Answer 1

Me to.
Is it possible to auto-publish and then subscribe with the other computer — using your own regular webspace account — and still be able to change stuff while keeping your info secure/private?
I did find this:
*Sync calendars in iCal via DropBox*
*from Wired 2009.09:*
*Sync Your Life With Dropbox*
*Sure, Mac users can buy MobileMe ($99 per year) to stay organized across multiple machines. But Web-based service Dropbox can deliver the mobile you for free. Here’s how to use it to sync your iCal data on two computers.*
*1. Download and install the Dropbox app, then open your Mac’s Terminal utility. Enter +mv ~/Library/Calendars/ ~/Dropbox/+ to move your iCal files to Dropbox.*
*2. On a new line, type +ln -s ~/Dropbox/ Calendars/ ~/Library /Calendars+ to redirect your Mac to Dropbox whenever it tries to access iCal data.*
*3. Delete the Calendars file from the User Library on your second Mac. Open Terminal and reenter the code from step 2. You’ve essentially built an Ethernet cable in the cloud, linking the two Macs. —Maren Jinnett*
*http://www.wired.com/culture/education/magazine/17-09/st_howto*
First part works, but second part errors with: +ln -s ~/Dropbox/ Calendars/ ~/Library /Calendars ln: /Calendars: No such file or directory+