2 weeks and counting...  please help

I've had my Mac for 2 weeks. I've had to reboot it several times (like windows) for security updates. I've had it lock up 3 times so bad that I had to do a hard reset. Today for the 4th time I opened the lid and it wouldn't come on requiring a hard reset. Upon rebooting it took 5 minutes to get itself going again.
Now tonight, Parallels crashed on me. Tried to run it a second time and it won't even try to load. Opened Finder to go try to open Utilities program and when I scroll down using mouse to get to Utilities folder the Finder window just disappeared and I saw the trash can flicker. Tried again and same thing, except second time all my icons and folders on the desktop are gone.
Now I can't log out or anything. Nothing is working. Do I do yet another hard reset? I can't believe all the good things everyone has to say about Mac being so solid and all the problems I'm having.
Can anyone tell me what to do to get this thing going again? I don't seem to be able to logout or reset as the menus when clicked are not doing anything.
Thanks,
glenn

Sorry, this is an MBP that I just received 2 weeks ago. A little more information. I just opened a shell and looked at top and nothing seems to be going on. I then did ps -ax to see if anything related to parallels was running and 2 processes were. I killed them both.... Then tried to restart and when I clicked apple the shell program I had open just closed on its own.
The entire system seems to be asking me to hard reset again. I guess no matter where we go we can't get an OS that actually works. I love my Mac but I see no sign of anyone being able to claim its more stable than anything else.
Please help as I was hoping to get some work done tonight...
glenn

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