Address Book Mail.app and FaceTime contacts problem

Question

Hi to everyone. I really want some  help hear. My mail.app on MacBook Pro 2011 don't recognises the most of my contacts email as a result not showing me my contact picture and first/last name when they send me something. Gives me the choise to create a new contact but the funny is that i already have the mail in my address book.
In the facetime happening the same thing when someone calls me via his phone number. I just see the phone number and not the contacs name. When he calls me via email i can see him as my contact. For FaceTime i figured out that when i put the area code on my contacts phone number it's fine. I just want to know if all of you have in your contact's phones there area codes or is a bug on my system and isn't neccessary.
Thanks.

Answer 1

Mail.app recognizes their email address from Address Book.app and substitutes their names in place of the email address.
No, it doesn't. An email address field can contain a proper name which will be displayed if included; neither Mail nor Address Book substitute anything. If an email address does not contain a proper name, the only thing that will be displayed is the email address itself.
I would like to know how to get a more uniform look in my inbox. I've included a screenshot of Mail.app, but the domains of the emails are hidden for obvious reasons.
You can't, unless you can force everyone who might send you an email to include their name as part of the email address; good luck with that. Your link to a screenshot gives only a blank page, there is no image there.
Mulder