AdobeFlashPlayerInstaller_14_ltrosxd_aaa_aih.dmg Will Not Install with Mac OS 10.9.4

Question

Hi all i was prompted to install the new flash update,
i tried to install at first i was getting an error with safari being open, when it was closed, i had forced quit the browser
and also checked Activity Manager to make sure it was shut.
after reading the adobe help information i uninstalled flash and restarted the computer, i started the process again
the safari problem did not come up apon the new install, But i had a new problem i get a general error at around 75-85%,
of the install.e
so now i have no flash player, i read the forums there is another thread that links,  install_flash_player_osx-.dmg
some people saying that this works for OS 10.9.4, so i tried this option but now the file does not pass the download stage of the install at around 20%.
and the same old General error comes up again leaving me stuck, i am a stay at home dad that builds websites and i need Flash Player.
any help would be greatly welcomed.

Answer 1

@Kiwisox
Thank you for providing the files.  I didn't get a chance to look at them yesterday, but will do so today.
@Odawg76,
Please start a new thread with your issue, as it appears to be different from Kiwisox.  It is also difficult to respond to various users in the same thread and keep responses relevant to each individual as the forums software doesn't nest responses to individual users, but lists everything chronologically.  Please follow the guidelines here, Read Before Posting: How To Get A Useful Answer To Your Question, when creating your new thread. I've actually not seen the "Safari can't connect to server" returned by the Flash Player installer.  Please include a screenshot of the error.  Instructions available here, How to post a screenshot in the forum.  Thank you.
@nikondvr
You're issue appears to be different from Kiwisox.  On Mac, simply closing an application window does not quit the application.  You need to actually terminate Safari for Flash Player installation to proceed. 
There are a few different ways to Quit Safari:
Quit Safari app from the Dock icon:
Mouse over the Safari icon in the Dock
Press CTRL and left-mouse click at the same time
A menu will display. Click Quit to terminate the application.
Use Activity Monitor to terminate Safari:
Launch Activity Monitor from Applications/Utilities/Activity Monitor
Ensure 'All Processes' are being listed (menu in the upper right)
Find and select Safari
Click the Quit Process button (upper left)
Maria