BT Infinity is in my area, but no one can get it. ...

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Hi guys,
So my exchange (Trillick) has been Infinity activated:
http://www.samknows.com/broadband/exchange/NITR
I also confirmed it with the BT checker and yes it is there. As you can see I live in the middle of some fields!
Problem is I have a friend right beside the exchange, just across the road and he can not get infinity. I live exacly 1.5 miles away and again can't get it. In fact after spending a lot of time entering in everyones phone number from the entire area that I have, no one is able to get it. Now this irks me because I have been told by BT to wait as I will have it before 2012, and according to them it is available in "Some areas from that exchange." Now I don't mind waiting a bit longer but I would really like some accurate information. I see Openreach vans cruising around a lot for the last month or so and still nothing. Towns on both sides of us seem to be up and running for a few months now yet for some reason still nada here. 
Finally, as mentioned I live exactly 1.5 miles out the road from the exchange. What are the chances of us EVER getting infinity? I am sick and tired of Plusnet and their 60GB cap. I run a business and that simply is not good enough. As the area is ADSL only they will not raise the limit so I end up with a monthly bill near £80 for broadband alone, and is not sustainable. 
Thanks in advance,
J

Answer 1

Hi Webby, 
Thanks for the reply. 
Results are as follows:
"For Telephone Number 0288** ***** on Exchange TRILLICK
Your exchange is ADSL enabled, and our initial test on your line indicates that your line should be able to have an ADSL broadband service that provides a fixed line speed up to 2Mbps.
Our test also indicates that your line currently supports an estimated ADSL Max broadband line speed of 2.5Mbps; typically the line speed would range between 1.5Mbps and 3.5Mbps.
The actual stable line speed supportable will be determined during the first 10 days of use. This speed may change over time, to ensure line stability is maintained.
If you decide to place an order, a further test will be performed to confirm if your line is suitable for the service you wish to purchase.
Thank you for your interest.
Please note that postcode and address check results are indicative only. Most accurate results can be obtained from a telephone number check.
Note: If you already have a Broadband service enabled on this line and you want to switch service providers, you will need to contact both your current provider and your new provider to get your service changed over new and existing service provider to have this service transferred."
I get about 1.5 mb stable, with fluctuations and drop outs on a daily basis. 
As much as I would love to switch over to Option 3, I can't risk it. My current connect is now contract free. Prior to Plusnet I was with AOL years ago and suffered horrible customer service and a horrible connection that went out on the clock at 1.03pm untill 11.06pm everyday. No one could fix it, not AOL and not BT. So I am unwilling to change from Plusnet to BT incase that unknown problem resurfaces. I would rather pay more than have a totally unreliable service, and by switching to BT I would be under contract which is not something I am willing to do when I don't know how unreliable it would be. Plus I had been told I would be getting fibre to the area soon......I will however switch to the first person willing to offer me fibre!
I really wish there was a way to find out my local cabinet and check if I will be getting it.