Buddy List

Ok. This should be the most basic thing of all, and I can't believe I even have to ask this friggin question, but I don't seem to be capable enough to add a buddy to my buddy list. My girlfriend's address ends in @mac.com, as does mine. When I add her info, she appears in my list, her name flashes, then she is deleted from my list automatically. Why the **** is it doing this? When I added her name under @AIM.com, she stayed in the list, but she is offline (even when she's online) and I can't contact her because the AIM account doesn't accept offline messages. It both shows us under AIM buddy lists, if that makes a difference. Any help is appreciated.

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If you add a Buddy in iChat and Add the First Name, Last Name info in to the Panel AND that person is already in the Address Book then iChat 4 and 5 do not tell you hat the problem is but make the Buddy "disappear", not even putting them in the Off Line Buddies.
The issues is related to the fact you can not Add the same Contact Info to the Address Book twice.
You need to use this Arrow to link to the card already in the Address Book
Longer info here http://www.ralphjohns.co.uk/versions/ichatvers4/ichatvers4pics/AddBuddies/iChat4 Slide.html
AIM names would not normally end in @AIM.com although it is a possible name format (you can get email Address from them and use them as Screen Names but most people don't).
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