Can't Family Share with non-email Apple Id

Question

I will try to be brief.
Original iTunes account / Apple ID:  singitloud   -   Primary email: ********
Back when Apple asked me to change it to the email address, I said no...
Somehow I also have another Apple ID:  ********  (I believe this was my MobileMe account)
Yep - TWO separate Apple IDs that have the SAME email address - when I change one's password, theo ther changes as well - CRAZY
Then I made a  ******** account and use it as my iCloud account... secondary email is ********
Every purchase I have ever made on iTunes has been with the SINGITLOUD Apple ID
I wanted to do family sharing to get all my Singitloud purchases under my iCloud account... Can't do. Nope.
Any help at All?
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Answer 1

As we are fellow users here on these user-to-user forums, you're not talking to iTunes Support nor Apple, I've asked the hosts to remove your email addresses from your post - it's not a good idea to post personal info on any public forum, unless you like spam emails.
All iTunes downloads are tied to the account that downloaded them, and iTunes accounts have to have a unique email address - you are sure that you created a second account ? If you try to create a new account with an email address that is already being used as a primary email address you get a prompt saying so, and to either log in with the existing account or to use a different address for the new account
Have you invited your icloud.com account to be part of the family ? Adding email addresses to be an account's alternate email addresses does not make its purchases available to the account, the account that made the purchases needs to be part of the family.
Not all of the account's purchases may show for sharing : Which purchased content can I share using Family Sharing - Apple Support.