Cant Connect with facetime

Question

me and my friend wanted to have a facetime chat together so i called him, he answered and on his side it said connecting... but on my side it said facetime... we waited for a few minutes and lost connection. He then tried to call me and i didn't even get the notification. this problem also occurred in game center when i tried to play nanosaur 2 it never connected and when he tries I don't get the notification. Yesterday for some reason it started working and i could have a facetime chat and play my multiplayer game, i didnt do anything to make that happen if anyone knows a solution to my problem please respond im getting desperate i've even done a FULL restore

Answer 1

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Sometime yesterday I was on my computer trying to find a solution but I didn't find anything, so I thought that I should try one more time that time it worked! So I tried again and it worked, I could finally have a facetime chat with my friend. But this afternoon I wanted to have a chat with him today but what I mentioned earlier happened. so I can't make a facetime call or invite anyone to a multiplayer game on game center.
Thanks for that, T-Ratt
With that new info, here are a couple of things you can try:
(1) Turn either Wi-Fi or Airplane Mode on and off to try to refresh your connection. Then try FaceTime again. You can
(2) Both you and your friend should test with more than one FaceTime contact to determine which end of your connection is the cause of the trouble. You can test with me if you need more contacts. Click my name at left to find my contact info. 
(3) Some users report that that changing the wi-fi DNS Setting to Google's 8.8.8.8,8.8.4.4 improves wi-fi performance for FaceTime.
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