Declined Invitation.

I have read over this forum numerous times to try and figure this out, but still no luck with the problem. I am trying to video chat over iChat. My girlfriend uses AIM and a Dell laptop. I can connect to the Apple test buddies just fine but whenever I try to talk to my girlfriend it says she declines. I think it might be a problem on her end as I have tweaked everything on my end. Including the bandwidth and port.
I have a friend who goes to the same school who is an IT guy and I asked him for help today as well. Anything you guys can recommend?

Ok, so now I have the error report:
Date/Time: 2007-09-27 20:30:35.896 -0700
OS Version: 10.4.10 (Build 8R2232)
Report Version: 4
iChat Connection Log:
AVChat started with ID 0.
0x167c60d0: State change from AVChatNoState to AVChatStateWaiting.
metalsvn: State change from AVChatNoState to AVChatStateInvited.
0x167c60d0: State change from AVChatStateWaiting to AVChatStateConnecting.
metalsvn: State change from AVChatStateInvited to AVChatStateConnecting.
0x167c60d0: State change from AVChatStateConnecting to AVChatStateEnded.
Chat ended with error -8
metalsvn: State change from AVChatStateConnecting to AVChatStateEnded.
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@:0 type=4 (00000000/2)
[VCSIP_INVITEERROR]
[19]
@SIP/SIP.c:2448 type=4 (900A0015/2)
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@SIP/SIP.c:2448 type=4 (900A0015/2)
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@SIP/Transport.c:1218 type=1 (00000000/0)
[INVITE sip:[email protected]:38183 SIP/2.0
Via: SIP/2.0/UDP 192.168.1.113;branch=z9hG4bK7be7b21d61794278
Max-Forwards: 70
To: "u0" <sip:[email protected]:38183>
From: "metalsvn" <sip:[email protected]>;tag=1595441337
Call-ID: 2a113e68-6d73-11dc-9985-de309dda13c4@lip
CSeq: 1 INVITE
Contact: <sip:[email protected]>;isfocus
User-Agent: Viceroy 1.2
Content-Type: application/sdp
Content-Length: 516
v=0
o=jonibonogofsky 0 0 IN IP4 192.168.1.113
s=metalsvn
c=IN IP4 192.168.1.113
b=AS:2147483647
t=0 0
a=hwi:17412:2:2330
a=bandwidthDetection:YES
a=iChatEncryption:NO
m=audio 16386 RTP/AVP 12 3 0
a=rtpmap:3 GSM/8000
a=rtpmap:0 PCMU/8000
a=rtpID:-1970569989
m=video 16384 RTP/AVP 126 34
a=rtpmap:126 X-H264/90000
a=rtpmap:34 H263/90000
a=fmtp:34 imagesize 1 rules 30:352:288
a=framerate:20
a=RTCP:AUDIO 16387 VIDEO 16385
a=pogo
a=fmtp:126 imagesize 0 rules 20:640:480:640:480
a=rtpID:1638340574
@SIP/Transport.c:1218 type=1 (00000000/0)
[INVITE sip:[email protected]:38183 SIP/2.0
Via: SIP/2.0/UDP 192.168.1.113;branch=z9hG4bK7be7b21d61794278
Max-Forwards: 70
To: "u0" <sip:[email protected]:38183>
From: "metalsvn" <sip:[email protected]>;tag=1595441337
Call-ID: 2a113e68-6d73-11dc-9985-de309dda13c4@lip
CSeq: 1 INVITE
Contact: <sip:[email protected]>;isfocus
User-Agent: Viceroy 1.2
Content-Type: application/sdp
Content-Length: 516
v=0
o=jonibonogofsky 0 0 IN IP4 192.168.1.113
s=metalsvn
c=IN IP4 192.168.1.113
b=AS:2147483647
t=0 0
a=hwi:17412:2:2330
a=bandwidthDetection:YES
a=iChatEncryption:NO
m=audio 16386 RTP/AVP 12 3 0
a=rtpmap:3 GSM/8000
a=rtpmap:0 PCMU/8000
a=rtpID:-1970569989
m=video 16384 RTP/AVP 126 34
a=rtpmap:126 X-H264/90000
a=rtpmap:34 H263/90000
a=fmtp:34 imagesize 1 rules 30:352:288
a=framerate:20
a=RTCP:AUDIO 16387 VIDEO 16385
a=pogo
a=fmtp:126 imagesize 0 rules 20:640:480:640:480
a=rtpID:1638340574
@SIP/Transport.c:1218 type=1 (00000000/0)
[INVITE sip:[email protected]:38183 SIP/2.0
Via: SIP/2.0/UDP 192.168.1.113;branch=z9hG4bK7be7b21d61794278
Max-Forwards: 70
To: "u0" <sip:[email protected]:38183>
From: "metalsvn" <sip:[email protected]>;tag=1595441337
Call-ID: 2a113e68-6d73-11dc-9985-de309dda13c4@lip
CSeq: 1 INVITE
Contact: <sip:[email protected]>;isfocus
User-Agent: Viceroy 1.2
Content-Type: application/sdp
Content-Length: 516
v=0
o=jonibonogofsky 0 0 IN IP4 192.168.1.113
s=metalsvn
c=IN IP4 192.168.1.113
b=AS:2147483647
t=0 0
a=hwi:17412:2:2330
a=bandwidthDetection:YES
a=iChatEncryption:NO
m=audio 16386 RTP/AVP 12 3 0
a=rtpmap:3 GSM/8000
a=rtpmap:0 PCMU/8000
a=rtpID:-1970569989
m=video 16384 RTP/AVP 126 34
a=rtpmap:126 X-H264/90000
a=rtpmap:34 H263/90000
a=fmtp:34 imagesize 1 rules 30:352:288
a=framerate:20
a=RTCP:AUDIO 16387 VIDEO 16385
a=pogo
a=fmtp:126 imagesize 0 rules 20:640:480:640:480
a=rtpID:1638340574
@SIP/Transport.c:1218 type=1 (00000000/0)
[INVITE sip:[email protected]:38183 SIP/2.0
Via: SIP/2.0/UDP m.0;branch=z9hG4bK7451f0811af6d89f
Max-Forwards: 70
To: "u0" <sip:[email protected]:38183>
From: "metalsvn" <sip:[email protected]>;tag=618643838
Call-ID: 28de3352-6d73-11dc-9985-fe15317f13c4@lip
CSeq: 1 INVITE
Contact: <sip:[email protected]>;isfocus
User-Agent: Viceroy 1.2
Content-Type: application/sdp
Content-Length: 514
v=0
o=jonibonogofsky 0 0 IN IP4 m.0
s=metalsvn
c=IN IP4 m.0
b=AS:2147483647
t=0 0
a=hwi:17412:2:2330
a=bandwidthDetection:YES
a=iChatEncryption:NO
m=audio 16386 RTP/AVP 12 3 0
a=rtpmap:3 GSM/8000
a=rtpmap:0 PCMU/8000
a=rtpID:-1970569989
m=video 16384 RTP/AVP 126 34
a=rtpmap:126 X-H264/90000
a=rtpmap:34 H263/90000
a=fmtp:34 imagesize 1 rules 30:352:288
a=framerate:20
a=RTCP:AUDIO 16387 VIDEO 16385
a=pogo
a=fmtp:126 imagesize 0 rules 20:640:480:640:480
a=rtpID:1638340574
@SIP/Transport.c:1218 type=1 (00000000/0)
[INVITE sip:[email protected]:38183 SIP/2.0
Via: SIP/2.0/UDP m.0;branch=z9hG4bK7451f0811af6d89f
Max-Forwards: 70
To: "u0" <sip:[email protected]:38183>
From: "metalsvn" <sip:[email protected]>;tag=618643838
Call-ID: 28de3352-6d73-11dc-9985-fe15317f13c4@lip
CSeq: 1 INVITE
Contact: <sip:[email protected]>;isfocus
User-Agent: Viceroy 1.2
Content-Type: application/sdp
Content-Length: 514
v=0
o=jonibonogofsky 0 0 IN IP4 m.0
s=metalsvn
c=IN IP4 m.0
b=AS:2147483647
t=0 0
a=hwi:17412:2:2330
a=bandwidthDetection:YES
a=iChatEncryption:NO
m=audio 16386 RTP/AVP 12 3 0
a=rtpmap:3 GSM/8000
a=rtpmap:0 PCMU/8000
a=rtpID:-1970569989
m=video 16384 RTP/AVP 126 34
a=rtpmap:126 X-H264/90000
a=rtpmap:34 H263/90000
a=fmtp:34 imagesize 1 rules 30:352:288
a=framerate:20
a=RTCP:AUDIO 16387 VIDEO 16385
a=pogo
a=fmtp:126 imagesize 0 rules 20:640:480:640:480
a=rtpID:1638340574
@SIP/Transport.c:1218 type=1 (00000000/0)
[INVITE sip:[email protected]:38183 SIP/2.0
Via: SIP/2.0/UDP m.0;branch=z9hG4bK7451f0811af6d89f
Max-Forwards: 70
To: "u0" <sip:[email protected]:38183>
From: "metalsvn" <sip:[email protected]>;tag=618643838
Call-ID: 28de3352-6d73-11dc-9985-fe15317f13c4@lip
CSeq: 1 INVITE
Contact: <sip:[email protected]>;isfocus
User-Agent: Viceroy 1.2
Content-Type: application/sdp
Content-Length: 514
v=0
o=jonibonogofsky 0 0 IN IP4 m.0
s=metalsvn
c=IN IP4 m.0
b=AS:2147483647
t=0 0
a=hwi:17412:2:2330
a=bandwidthDetection:YES
a=iChatEncryption:NO
m=audio 16386 RTP/AVP 12 3 0
a=rtpmap:3 GSM/8000
a=rtpmap:0 PCMU/8000
a=rtpID:-1970569989
m=video 16384 RTP/AVP 126 34
a=rtpmap:126 X-H264/90000
a=rtpmap:34 H263/90000
a=fmtp:34 imagesize 1 rules 30:352:288
a=framerate:20
a=RTCP:AUDIO 16387 VIDEO 16385
a=pogo
a=fmtp:126 imagesize 0 rules 20:640:480:640:480
a=rtpID:1638340574
@:0 type=2 (00000000/22)
[VCVIDEO_OUTGOINGATTEMPT]
[4]
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