Don't want to download email from server. How?

Question

Just upgrade from my Droid1 to a new Droid RAZR.
On my Droid1, when I checked my eemail, the messages were not downloaded to the phone. They remained on the server. Then, when I checked email from my PC, any messages that were in my Droid's inbox would automatically be removed (as they were downloaded to my PC). If I deleted a mail message from my Droid's inbox, the message would still be downloaded to my PC when I checked its email.
I want to configure the email on my new RAZR the same way, but I'm having problems. After downloading the email to my PC, the messages remain in my RAZR's inbox. I have to manually delete them   What am I doing wrong?
My RAZR's email configuration is:
Incoming server
POP mail server
Server, username, and password (all are correct)
Port: 110
My old Droid1 had a "Delete email from server: When I delete from Inbox" setting.
Outgoing server
SMTP server
Server, username, and password
Port: 26
Authentication: LOGIN
My old Droid1 had a "Require sign-in" setting
Other settings
Never delete messages
Remove manually deleted emails from the server (enabled)
My old Droid1 did not have this "Other settings" section.
Thanks!
-R

Answer 1

i agree up to #5.
if i get a pop3 email on the phone & don't delete it but look at the same email on my pc, deleting the email on the pc does not delete it from the phone inbox & must be deleted manually.
as i don't leave a copy of the email on the server using outlook express on the home pc, if i get email on the pc 1st, it won't go to the phone.
i don't delete from the server on the phone, so if i delete the email in the phone inbox, it still goes to the pc.
oh, btw, i do a manual fetch on the phone.
gmail does what you ask, email in the inbox is deleted when deleted from the gmail account on a pc.