Family sharing 'ask' feature?

I have my kids setup with family sharing on their iPod touch (5th ten running iOS8), and to get apps they are prompted to 'ask' but I never receive any notifications to approve. How do I check settings?

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Family purchases and payments - Apple Support

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Family Sharing, Ask to buy and iTunes cards

my son got a iTunes Gift card for christmas. Is it possible to add the gift card to his Apple account, but still have the Family Sharing Ask to Buy feature work? Or will he get to make purchases without the Ask to Buy feature working?

Hey there jccamp95,
Your son will be able to redeem the iTunes Gift Card and it will apply to his Apple ID in the iTunes Store. Take a look at this info from the following article about Family Sharing payments and billing:
Family purchases and payments
After you set up your family, any time a family member initiates a new purchase it will be billed directly to your account unless that family member has gift or store credit. First, their store credit will be used to pay the partial or total bill. The remainder will bill to the family organizer's card. As the family organizer, any receipts generated by the transaction will be sent to you. Learn more about how iTunes Store purchases are billed.
Once paid for, a purchased item is added to the account of the family member who initiated the purchase. In other words, the content belongs to them, much as it would if you were buying them a book or a DVD. If Family Sharing is ever disabled, each member will keep the purchases they initiated, even though they were paid for by the family organizer.
Thank you for using Apple Support Communities.
Cheers,
Sterling

ITunes Family Sharing - Ask to Buy - I, the pay source, want the option to be asked regardless of age!

Ask to Buy in Family Sharing does not require a person over 18 to at least ask the payer to provide approval when purchasing. Not even the option to turn it on/off ???
How Lame is this… are you telling me that kids/young adults/even grown adults over 18 are responsible enough (or naturally mature enough) to NOT have to seek their parents/payer's approval for spending their money on "entertainment" for themselves? Give me the DANG option as the OWNER and pay source to turn them off if/when I want to. Its like keys to the car. Irresponsibility or disregard to responsibility will get you grounded and the key taken away. I see this PRIVILEGE no different and thus MUST be revokable (at the payer's discretion at any time).
If I am paying for it.. I want to know about it.. no matter how old the person is I am sharing my library with. Its a check and balance / courtsey thing… not a trust thing.
GIVE ME THE 'ASK TO BUY' OPTION FOR FAMILY MEMBERS 18 or older. Or Apple can build roles other than child(less then 18) or adult (18 or more) that I can place them in that role myself with the desired permissions (like a College Student)!
I DO NOT think is it safe or secure to assume that the Ask to Buy option can be disabled permanently for anyone 18 or over. What if the device is left unattended or stolen and somehow accessed without permission .. that's way to easy for a dishonest person to empty you out!
I will not be using this feature until this is an option. I love the idea and it would be very helpful/useful if this only this option existed.
I'm the parent, I decide this type of thing in my household, not Apple!
Steve

Thank you Ms. SJ!!!!
I was having this problem with my youngest daughters account. Your post about establishing the payment history apart from family sharing made a lot of sense. My oldest daughter has had an account for some time that she had been adding iTunes gift cards to, so her account was "established" before it was added to our family sharing group. I had no trouble approving her purchases.
I had set up an account for my youngest daughter a long time ago, but used it only for email and iMessage on her iPod. My ID was used for purchases on the device. After Family sharing was launched and she got an iPad for Christmas, I decided to set up her ID as the primary account on her new iPad and added her to family sharing.
The first problem I ran into with Family Sharing was enabling the "Ask to Buy" function because since I set up accounts for my daughters a long time ago they were both showing as adults. I learned from another post that the fix for this was to change their birthdates to January 1, 2001. I did this and it has them listed as Age 14 on their family sharing profiles - fine.
I then ran into the same problem with Ask to Buy that David Wilkie described above. My fix was a little different from yours and less intensive.
Removed my youngest daughter from family sharing
Purchased an app using her account alone (with an iTunes gift card attached) to establish a purchase history.
I then re-added her to our family sharing group.
I had her purchase a song using "Ask to Buy" and it worked as expected.
Thanks for going through the legwork with support to find this fix and share it. I hope my experience can be helpful as well.

IOS 8 Family Sharing "Ask to Buy" not working

If it's not one thing with iOS 8, it's another. I have a iPhone 6, iPad Air, and a child's iPhone 5. I'm setup under my iCloud account as the "Organizer" on the iPad Air and iPhone 6, he is setup as a child, with "Ask to Buy" turned on, on the iPhone 5. When he tries to make an app purchase on the iPhone 5, it says that permission must be granted, with a pop-up notification, and then you can select "Ask." Problem is, I never receive the request on either the iPhone 6 or iPad Air, so I cannot grant permission.
Any solutions?

There sticky point appears to be related to what why call the "original" iCloud account vs. a newer iCloud account. In other words only the first iCloud account used to make purchases appears to work with "Ask to buy" feature. In my case I had a very old apple id (@mac, then @me, then @icloud) and after purchasing iPhones for all family members I created a new apple id for me (private backups between my devices). Each of my family members now have their own apple id's. Well, my fairly new apple id (which has payment methods for iTunes/appstore) does not work with "ask to buy" feature. Only the original apple id does. I can't understand why. As an experiment I added the original apple id as a family member in Family share, and set as parent/guardian. That did the trick in terms of receiving ask to buy notifications, but it will remove the ability for me to see shared purchases because there's two" apple ID's set under family sharing.
If somebody figures out how to fix this, please let me know.
Thanks,
Wil

Family Sharing Ask to Buy Not Working (with exact explanation)

I see lots of posts on this, so I will try to be very specific in hopes someone can solve this and others can learn from it too.
My family has 4 iPhones: my iPhone 6; my sons' two iPhone 6 Plus iPhones; and my daughter's iPhone 5S. All are running the latest iOS 8 (8.0.2).
I cannot seem to get any of my kids iPhones, with all of us on Family Sharing, to send a request to my iPhone for purchases they want to make. Despite what I believe is the correct setup for Family Sharing, they get asked for the security code of my credit card. I will go through the setup and steps in painstaking detail in hopes this helps:
In Settings > iCloud > Family I have myself as the "Organizer" and my 3 kids, with the "accounts" as follows:
Me = the regular iTunes account I have had for years
Son #1 = @icloud iTunes account I made on his iPhone with the new process for minors
Son #2 = ditto above, except for this son
Daughter = ditto above, except for my daughter
"Ask to Buy" is turned on for all 3 of my kids accounts
In iTunes & App Store on my iPhone 6 the Apple ID is indeed my Apple ID
In each of my kids' iPhones, in Settings > iCloud, it shows the same @icloud account as mentioned above. In other words, each of them have as their iCloud account the same ID as what I see in the Family Sharing on my iPhone.
Similarly in each of my kids' iPhones, in Settings > iTunes & App Store, the Apple ID is the same @icloud account for that respective kid's iPhone.
When I go to make a purchase on any of my kids' iPhones, here's exactly what happens…the example being to buy the movie Godzilla
Videos > Store > Search > "Godzilla" > "$19.99 BUY" > "BUY MOVIE" … up comes the "Sign In to iTunes Store" box that asks "Enter the Apple ID password for the [email protected]" (correct ID for that phone) … I enter the correct password for that kid's account … and then get the "Payment Verification Required" which says "Your Family Organizer, <my correct iTunes account> must enter the security code for the payment method." … I then press Continue and this is where it really surprises me … instead of sending any request to my iPhone (I get nothing) it brings up "Account Settings" and asks for the Security Code for my credit card. What the heck? Shouldn't this instead trigger a request to my iPhone? At this point there's no way to proceed. If I hit Cancel it exits out. If I hit Done (without entering the credit card security code) I get the notice "Confirmation Required" which says "Do you still want to buy Godzilla (2014) for $19.99?" … if I say Continue, I get the very same "Payment Verification Required" as mentioned above, which returns me again to the page asking for the credit card security code, essentially an endless loop.
Help! I am hoping someone knows how to solve this problem (and that this post helps others with similar problems).
Thanks for any help!

Thank you Ms. SJ!!!!
I was having this problem with my youngest daughters account. Your post about establishing the payment history apart from family sharing made a lot of sense. My oldest daughter has had an account for some time that she had been adding iTunes gift cards to, so her account was "established" before it was added to our family sharing group. I had no trouble approving her purchases.
I had set up an account for my youngest daughter a long time ago, but used it only for email and iMessage on her iPod. My ID was used for purchases on the device. After Family sharing was launched and she got an iPad for Christmas, I decided to set up her ID as the primary account on her new iPad and added her to family sharing.
The first problem I ran into with Family Sharing was enabling the "Ask to Buy" function because since I set up accounts for my daughters a long time ago they were both showing as adults. I learned from another post that the fix for this was to change their birthdates to January 1, 2001. I did this and it has them listed as Age 14 on their family sharing profiles - fine.
I then ran into the same problem with Ask to Buy that David Wilkie described above. My fix was a little different from yours and less intensive.
Removed my youngest daughter from family sharing
Purchased an app using her account alone (with an iTunes gift card attached) to establish a purchase history.
I then re-added her to our family sharing group.
I had her purchase a song using "Ask to Buy" and it worked as expected.
Thanks for going through the legwork with support to find this fix and share it. I hope my experience can be helpful as well.

Child account in family sharing asking for payment verification?

I am the organiser of my family sharing group which includes my three children (under 18). Today my son tried to download a Free app which would usually send a request to me to approve however instead it is asking on his iPad to provide payment account verification ie add my credit card details. I cannot choose None (it is greyed out) and I don't understand why I would need to add my credit card details to his iPad to verify his account when all purchases should be coming through my account.
Any suggestions?

The issue seems to have resolved itself, I assume the issue was a glitch on Apple's end.

HT201089 Family Sharing-ask to buy

I can not enable ask to buy for my son. It says he is sharing purchases from an account also used by another family member, but it's just the two of us at this point.

I had the same problem and found the solution posted by sdalberg.
I apparently erred by trying to add him to Family Share before I had his own iCloud account completely set up.
On your iOS device, go to your iCloud settings and click on the family member you are having problems with. Click on "Remove." You will get some warning messages and then emails saying that he has left the family. Then go back to the family menu and "Add Family Member..." and add him again. You will be asked to decide whether you want "Ask To Buy" enabled and turn it on. Once you finish setting it up, "Ask To Buy" should be enabled.

HT201089 Family Sharing Ask to Buy - notification after approval

Will the family member get some type of notification after I approve a purchase?

I Had a similar problem when I set it up and it sorted itself out after I had restarted all the devices. Also I think I logged out of iCloud and back in on all devices too.

How can I use family sharing, but allow my daughter to purchase with her iTunes allowance without asking permission?

I love the idea of iTunes family sharing, but I don't think it currently supports my situation.
My daughter's iTunes account gets a monthly allowance (plus occasional gift cards), and does not have a credit card tied to it. That way, she can buy whatever she wants, but only with her existing account balance.
I'd like to tie her account to mine via family sharing, but want to keep her spending limited to just her allowance balance. Also, I don't need to grant permission each time she wants to buy something when using her balance. Ideally, she would be permitted to buy exactly as she does now (no permission necessary, no credit card on the account, and only using allowance funds), but also be tied my family account to listen to music I've already bought.
It appears that my 3 options are:
Do not do family sharing and keep the accounts separate.
Tie the accounts together, put "ask to buy" on her account, and then get bugged for permission each time she wants to get something (as well as keep track myself of her going over her allowance and dipping into my credit card).
Tie the accounts together, don't use "ask to buy", and keep my fingers crossed that she doesn't spend more than her allowance amount (because iTunes would permit spending more than that and charge my card).
Options 2 and 3 don't work for me, and option 1 doesn't take advantage of family sharing.
Can I have a family sharing account that *doesn't* charge to my credit card?

Hello jeffchr,
Thanks for the question. Based on what you stated, it seems like you don't want to be billed for a family members purchases. I would recommend that you read these articles, they explain the features options.
Family Sharing
All new iTunes, iBooks, and App Store purchases initiated by family members will be billed to the family organizer’s account.
Family purchases and payments
Making purchases
After you set up your family, any time a family member initiates a new purchase it will be billed directly to your account unless that family member has gift or store credit. First, their store credit will be used to pay the partial or total bill. The remainder will bill to the family organizer's card.
How iTunes Store purchases are billed
Which payment methods will be used first?
When you make a purchase, content credits are used first, followed by Gift Certificate, iTunes Card, or Allowance Account credits. Your credit card or PayPal account is then charged for any remaining balance.
Thanks for using Apple Support Communities.
Cheers,
Mario

Family Sharing *never* asks permission prior to purchase

I'm sure others are having this issue (I've seen a few posts here and there); I have a love/hate relationship with Family Sharing. Movie and TV sharing is great -- it's easy for us to share purchases; we do it all the time.
The problem is with the fabled "ask permission prior to purchase" feature -- it doesn't work. Not for us anyway. I only know that a purchase has been made after I get notification email from my CC company that a charge has been made.
My kids are good; it's not a problem. They usually ask.
Everyone at Apple is perplexed -- no idea why it's not working, have you tried this or that kind of thing (logging in, then out; deleting plan then reinstating, etc.; nothing has fixed it).
It's such a great idea, I'm really kind of ****** that it isn't working for us.

Hello jeffchr,
Thanks for the question. Based on what you stated, it seems like you don't want to be billed for a family members purchases. I would recommend that you read these articles, they explain the features options.
Family Sharing
All new iTunes, iBooks, and App Store purchases initiated by family members will be billed to the family organizer’s account.
Family purchases and payments
Making purchases
After you set up your family, any time a family member initiates a new purchase it will be billed directly to your account unless that family member has gift or store credit. First, their store credit will be used to pay the partial or total bill. The remainder will bill to the family organizer's card.
How iTunes Store purchases are billed
Which payment methods will be used first?
When you make a purchase, content credits are used first, followed by Gift Certificate, iTunes Card, or Allowance Account credits. Your credit card or PayPal account is then charged for any remaining balance.
Thanks for using Apple Support Communities.
Cheers,
Mario

Family Sharing problem: Ask Permission Notifications

Ask Permission Notifications are only showing up when I log onto my Macbook and not my iPhone. Is there something in my iPhone settings that is I have activated preventing me from getting these notifications?

Did you create her as a child account, or is she set up as an adult ?
From Request and make purchases with Ask to Buy :
Ask to Buy is a feature of Family Sharing, and the family organizer can turn on Ask to Buy for any family member who isn't an adult. When a family member initiates a new purchase or free download, a request is sent to the organizer if Ask to Buy is on.
There are instructions on that link for how to turn 'ask to buy' on and off for under 18s

Family Sharing - Unable to turn on Ask to Buy

I have been attempting to setup my daughters iPhone 5 to use Family Sharing. I have the invite sent and accepted on her phone. However, When i try to activate the "ask to buy" function from my phone on her account I get the following message
Has anyone else had this issue? if so, could you give me your ideas on how to work around this? I feel like it could be something with the setup on my daughters phone, but completely sure. I have her iCloud setup using her Apple ID, and the iTunes Store is setup using my Apple ID ( have also tried setting it up with her ID being associated with iTunes Store also but no good)

Hi gt23,
It seems you would like to activate "Ask to Buy" on an adult account in your Family Sharing group. "Ask to Buy" cannot be activated on an adult account. The following article provides more details about Family Sharing:
Family purchases and payments - Apple Support
Ask to Buy is enabled by default for any children under 13 years old, and can be enabled during the setup process for any children 13-17 years old.* You can't turn on Ask to Buy for adults.
Thank you for contributing to Apple Support Communities.
Take care,
Bobby_D

Can songs uploaded using the iMatch service be accessed by other family members using the Family Sharing feature?

Can songs uploaded using the iMatch service be accessed by other family members using the Family Sharing feature?

No
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HT203905 I have changed my family sharing organizer payment method but when asked to add members it keeps asking for information for a card I no longer have so I do not have the security code.

I have changed my family sharing organizer payment method but when asked to add members it keeps asking for information for a card I no longer have so I do not have the security code. My current shows in all the correct places but when asked to verify, the old card is referenced. I changed the card in itunes and on my phone and ipad.

I have changed my family sharing organizer payment method but when asked to add members it keeps asking for information for a card I no longer have so I do not have the security code. My current shows in all the correct places but when asked to verify, the old card is referenced. I changed the card in itunes and on my phone and ipad.

Why is Family Sharing not allowing me to ask for purchases from my mom?

We recently got family sharing together and once my mom tried to click the thingy that says, "Turn on ASK TO BUY" or whatever, this happened:
"Cannot Enable Ask to Buy, Ainslie is sharing purchases from an account that's also used by another family member. Ask to Buy can only be enabled on accounts that aren't shared."
except my iPad mini uses the same Apple ID..... How do I get it to work?!

See the following for how Family Sharing works
Family purchases and payments - Apple Support
It includes
After you set up your family, any time a family member initiates a new purchase it will be billed directly to your (the administrator's) account unless that family member has gift or store credit. First, their store credit will be used to pay the partial or total bill. The remainder will bill to the family organizer's card. As the family organizer, any receipts generated by the transaction will be sent to you. Learn more about how iTunes Store purchases are billed

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