How do I seperate myself and 2 teenagers phones and ipads from getting each others texts (icloud)

hi
This is all new to me...As a parent,I have my iphone with my account for apple with my email as the main contact address...here's the problem.
My two teenagers ALWAYS get or at least can read from their phones/ipads ALL my texts i send/receive and vice versa from my friends.
Since they are just 16- they share my account on Itunes/apple etc... QUESTION!  Is there a way that I can BLOCK their iphones/ipads from getting my personal messages??? 
Any help would be greatly appreciated!
Thank You!!

If you use the same Apple ID for iMessage you'll get each other's text messages.  You can still share the same ID for iTunes, but you should use separate IDs for iMessage.  To change the ID, go to Settings>Messages>Send & Receive, tap the ID, sign out, then sign back in with a separate ID.  (You should do the same thing in Settings>FaceTime to avoid getting each other's FaceTime calls.)

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