How do I stop the autoload on QT .mov files on a webpage?

Question

I've read through http://www.apple.com/quicktime/tutorials/embed2.html already, and here is my code:
<OBJECT classid='clsid:02BF25D5-8C17-4B23-BC80-D3488ABDDC6B' width="225" height="191"
codebase='http://www.apple.com/qtactivex/qtplugin.cab'>
<param name='src' value="http://www.ssi-online.org/Media/SSI_Promo.mov">
<param name='autohref' value="false">
<param name='autoplay' value="false">
<param name='controller' value="true">
<param name='loop' value="false">
<param name='scale' value="aspect">
<param name='cache' value="true">
<EMBED src="http://www.ssi-online.org/Media/SSI_Promo.mov" width="225" height="191" cache="true" autohref="false" href="http://www.ssi-online.org/Media/SSI_Promo.mov"
autoplay="false" controller="true" loop="false" scale="aspect" pluginspage='http://www.apple.com/quicktime/download/'>
</EMBED></OBJECT>
I think that the HREF and AUTOHREF attributes here are unnecessary, as they should only come into play if I want people to click on the movie to open it in another window or have the movie load on a page by itself, neither of which is NOT what I want. What I want is for the page to load exactly as it is, except instead of loading the QT movie automatically, to wait to load it unless someone clicks the play button on the controls. I want it to act this way for 2 reasons: first so page viewers don't have to wait for the loading time to see the pages, and second to stop using up my bandwidth for people who don't care to see the movies anyway.
How do I do this? It's not apparent to me from reading the page referenced above that lists the possible QT parameters. The rest of the parameters seem to be working as described: it is not autoplaying; the controller is showing; it is not looping; the aspect is correct; if the movie exists in the cache it will load from there.
The website is www.ssi-online.org, and I'm trying to do this with both videos in the right sidebar, which occurs on every page throughout the site.
Thanks!
Tim

Answer 1

Any tag that includes "false" can be left out of the code.
The file will always download.
If you don't want the source file to download then you would set the HREF value to your true source movie and the "src" tag to another QuickTime file.
You would then need to include a "target" ("_blank", "_myself", or "quicktimeplayer". Blank would be a new window, myself would be the same window and quicktimeplayer would launch the QuickTime Player app instead of the browser plug-in.
http://homepage.mac.com/kkirkster/03war/
One of mine. The style is known as "Poster Movie" and the source doesn't load until the poster is clicked. Target in my example is quicktimeplayer.