How to fix ur Ipod touch if it didn't connect to ur itunes

Question

Here's one of the ways I fix mine after one month of frustration.I realized that if anyone just got Windows vista and has not formatted their computer then it will not load up because vista doesn't know what to update.So the best way is to format it but make sure u save your personal stuff on a USB drive or disc before fomatting ur computer so u still have all ur stuff and as for ur programs just reinstall it all again.
2.Or the other way is to go to another computer from ur friends or family who has windows xp and plug in ur ipod and it updates ur ipod touch on there computer to the new firmware 1.1.3 or u can add or edit ur music, movies and others from their computer.It will work on vista if u bought the computer with it but if u upgraded to vista then u need to format ur computer but make sure u save ur things first on USB or disc like music or documents.
This is just one of the ways if u need to listen to ur music or have ur things on ur ipod uploaded.I don't know if this will help but it work for me finally.

Answer 1

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Place the iOS device in Recovery Mode and then connect to your computer and restore via iTunes. The iPod will be erased.
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If recovery mode does not work try DFU mode.                        
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For how to restore:
iTunes: Restoring iOS software
To restore from backup see:
iOS: How to back up     
If you restore from iCloud backup the apps will be automatically downloaded. If you restore from iTunes backup the apps and music have to be in the iTunes library since synced media like apps and music are not included in the backup of the iOS device that iTunes makes.
You can redownload most iTunes purchases by:
Downloading past purchases from the App Store, iBookstore, and iTunes Store