I share an itunes account with my daughter, didn't realize that updating to ios6 and the cloud would link our phones.  This is a fiasco, anyone have any advice how to remedy?

I ran ios6 updates on my ipad and iphone, not knowing that using the icloud and sharing an itunes account with my daughter, would have our phones and my ipad now linked together.  My contacts are gone (875 of them) and I have her contacts, and our text messages are now shared like a party line!  Can anyone help me with this?  What to do now, I don't want to sync or do anything to any device!!

iCloud is designed to be used by one user with all their devices "linked" together.  Your daughter needs to have her own icloud account.  Using one Apple ID for an iTunes account is a different situation, you can certainly share the account with your daughter.  That way she can access purchased items without paying again.
If she already has another icloud account, and wants to set it up on her device, then go to Settings>icloud, scroll to bottom of screen and tap Delete Account.  This only disconnects the device from that account, no data is lost on icloud.  Then enter the account ID that she wants to use.
To create a new icloud account, go to
http://www.apple.com/icloud/setup/
As for your lost contacts, they are gone.  You only hope is if the contacts were also on your computer and (if gone now) you have made frequent backups of the computer (like using Time Machine on a mac).  Just restore the contact files back to your computer.

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