IMessage won't work with 1 contact. (iOS7)

iPhone 4s with iOS7
iMessage won't work with only 1 specific contact.
Prior to updating i was able to iMessage with the contact in question without issue.
Both of us updated to iOS7 yesterday, since then messages between us are Text Messages only. We screwed around with everything. We discovered if i send to his email address (checkmarked with iMessage) it works. ALSO...after searching and trying different things, he can send me iMessages from his number, but when i respond it switches SMSs . FaceTime also works.
It works with all my other contacts without issues.
We both tried the following.
- deleting eahcother as contacts,
- resets (many)
- turned off iMessage (reset network settings)
- logging in and out of appleID in several locations
- removed checkmarks from emails/phone number
- on WiFi, on 3G
- phone restore
Start new conversation: only my phone # is checkmarked. receinve, I have 3 emails and phone number
any ideas?

Welcome to Apple Support Communities
Open Finder, press Option key, select Go > Library, open Preferences and delete com.apple.imessage.bag.plist and com.apple.imservice.iMessage.plist

Similar Messages

  • IMessage won't work with some contacts

    Hi everybody,
    today I wanted to text my friend using iMessage.
    I noticed that my friends name is not in blue. I see all my iMessage contacts in blue, except this my friend.
    I tried to switch iMessage off on my phone and on phone of my friend, but it doesn't work.
    What I can do to fix this problem?

    Your friend's phone number is not properly registered with iMessage or the phone number you have for your friend in your contacts list is not correct. The number in your contact list must match exactly to the number your friend is using.

  • Why downloaded ringtone won't work with a contact on iphone5

    I downloaded a ringtone and associated it with my sons number-he changed services to AT&T and has a new number. I can not get that ringtone to work with his new number, Why? It shows up and works in tones...is checked off for his ringtone, but will not work.
        Actually, just tested....can not get ANY ringtones to work for his number!!

    When he calls, does his name show up on the screen for the Caller ID? Have you tried completely deleting his contact and then adding it back as new? If you want before doing that, after you have changed his ringtone, do a reset on the phone. Hold the sleep/wake and home buttons together until you see the Apple logo and then release. After the phone restarts, see if the ringtone works for his calls.

  • Imessage will not work with some contacts

    Hi there,
    I'm new to iphone and need help with imessage. I can imessage and face time my wife, although it's always a blue bubble wether I'm on wifi or not. My brothers has an iphone which will imessage sometimes but will never connect for face time.
    Is imessage spouse to work only when both phones are in wifi? Is there any way to force it into an imessage rather then SMS? Vodafone nz have told me that every time I turn it off and on again, I am charged. Is that normal?
    I've tried that anyway, I've tried rebooting the phone, it just does what it wants all the time.
    Thanks for the help

    1. Both devices have to be running iOS 5.*
    2. Internet latency can delay iMessage connection.  If you enabled "Send as SMS", the phone will switch to SMS if iMessage doesn't connect quickly.  If you disable Send as SMS, more of your messages will go through as iMessage.

  • Imessage won't work with one person?

    I have an iPhone 4S and was texting a friend who also has one. Well she sent me a message back but it was sent as a text and I tried to text her back but mine went through as a imessage but wouldn't deliver. So I tried to resend it as a text but it failed to send. I thought it was my phone so I text others with an iPhone and it went through perfectly.? It is my phone or her phone that is messing up.? I kept getting text messages from her all that day but I never could reply back to her.

    Hello there, Maenmc0.
    The following Knowledge Base article has some extensive steps to troubleshoot your issue:
    iOS: Troubleshooting Messages
    http://support.apple.com/kb/TS2755
    Thanks for reaching out to Apple Support Communities.
    Cheers,
    Pedro D.

  • IMessage won't work with my email address?.?.?

    i;ve set up my iMessage account with my old mobile me address (updated to iOS5 yesterday). when i try and send a iMessage to myself using my phone number it goes through, but when trying to send it to the email associated with my iMessage account, it just stays on "sending" and never goes through..
    what am i doing wrong? thanks.

    You have not associated the email address to the account. Its not activated. Go to setting and messages.
    J

  • HT4972 my imessage won't work with ios 7 update

    I upgraded my iphone 4s to IOS 7 and it won't let me enable text massaging

    Try this help article here:
    Troubleshooting FaceTime & iMessage Activation: http://support.apple.com/kb/TS4268??

  • IMessage won't work with one individual

    I use iMessage all the time, but have one friend who can't receive my texts in iMessage; they all arrive as emails.  I can't receive any of his texts at all (I do get his emails, of course).
    The solution seemed obvious when I discovered that his iPhone settings were set up to receive messages to his phone number only, not his email address.  We corrected this, but it didn't solve the problem.
    MMS is turned on for both of us.  My iPhone is set up to use iMessage only, not SMS.  His phone is now set to receive both kinds.   Other than that, our settings for iMessage are identical.
    Any ideas about what's going on here? 

    Recently I was able to send Imessages (I have an iPhone 4S) to my boyfriend (he has an iPhone 5) and now I can't. Yesterday everything was in blue, but now everything is green. I am able to send Imessages to other people but I can't do it for him. What's happening????

  • On ios7 my iMessage won't work or actavate or it won't except my password

    On ios7 my iMessage won't work or actavate or it won't except my password how can I resolve this problem

    Troubleshooting Messages

  • My imessage has just stopped working with one of my contacts, on both of our phones imessage still works with other contacts. Why can we imessage others but not each other?

    My imessage has just stopped working with one of my contacts, on both of our phones imessage still works with other contacts. Why can we imessage others but not each other?

    Yes... to no avail

  • My iMessage only works with one contact in my phone. I text several people that have the iphone 4s, theirs works with other people. But mine only works with one person. Why?

    My iMessage only works with one contact in my phone. I text several people that have the iphone 4s, theirs works with other people. But mine only works with one person. Why?

    about message http://support.apple.com/kb/HT3529
    troubleshooting message http://support.apple.com/kb/ts2755

  • TS4268 Updated iphone 4S with IOS6, now facetime and imessage won't work, says "waiting for activation", have reset, turned off and on, removed sim card, checked date/time, checked restrictions, checked email/ID, tried all troubleshooting advice on apple

    Updated iphone 4S with IOS 6, now facetime & imessage won't work, says "waiting for activation", have reset, turned off & on, removed sim card, checked restrictions, email/ID, date/time, tried all troubleshooting advice on apple support.  HELP!!!!

    Updated iphone 4S with IOS 6, now facetime & imessage won't work, says "waiting for activation", have reset, turned off & on, removed sim card, checked restrictions, email/ID, date/time, tried all troubleshooting advice on apple support.  HELP!!!!

  • I updated my iPod to the ios6 Software and ever since I rebooted iMessage won't work. How do I fix this?

    It won't work. It was working at first when I updated but then after like 2 hours it wouldn't work. I rebooted it and THEN it wouldn't work. I would sign in to set it up, pick an email I wanted to use, but then it would take me back to the sign in screen with no explination. I'm getting really annoyed. I NEEED IMESSAGE. HELP

    See:
    iMessage won't work after iOS 6 upgrade: Apple Support Communities
    iOS: Troubleshooting FaceTime and iMessage activation

  • Imessage won't work/activate after 5.1

    I updated to 5.1 this morning, and now my imessage won't work. I try to turn it on, and I just get an activation error. "An error occurred during activation, try again".I've read in some other posts that my phone number should show by the imessage option? I don't see it anywhere. Once I get the activation error, then it provides me with the option to sign in using my appleID, but it when I do, it just keeps on reverting back to the sign in screen and won't connect. I've read through this forum and tried everything that I found - checked the date/time settings, checked my phone number, reset the networks, hard reset - and still it won't activate. What do I do?

    Mine didn't work for 2 months and this fixed it, so I posted it in another discussion and have been getting "thank you" replies nearly daily:
    Just update your date/time settings:
    Settings
    > General
    >> Date & Time
    >>> Set Automatically:  Slide "ON"...If it's already on, then slide it off, chill for a bit (maybe restart it), then slide it back on.
    I am using an iPhone 4 with iOS 5.1, but other users with 3GS, 4S, and even iTouch devices replied that it worked.

  • Elements 13 won't work with new camera, it won't update to raw 8.7.1

    Elements 13 won't work with new camera, it won't update to raw 8.7.1. I have downloaded the patch, it is installed but the old version is this there in elements. Thanks, esther

    OK I think the problem is probably related to the platform swap and you may need your account re-set. Only Adobe staff can do that.  You need to contact Adobe directly using the link below. Use the dropdown menu for boxes (1) & (2) to scroll down the list and choose:
    1. Adobe Photoshop Elements
    2. Adobe ID, and signing-in
    3. Click on the blue button: Still need help? Contact us – then click the area marked chat 24/7, then click “start chat ”
    It’s usually possible to start a live chat, if an Adobe agent is free, and often to get the problem fixed right away. Have your serial number and previous case number available. The agent can directly troubleshoot your system if you agree to activate the Adobe Connect add-on.
    Click here to get help now Contact Customer Care

Maybe you are looking for

  • Trying to create a fairly simple effect ... Help!

    Okay, so let me see if I can 'splain this clearly and concisely: I'm shooting a short scene for a little 24-hour competition. This is being shot inside a warehouse-style building. No windows. It's set in old mexico. I'd like to be able to cut away a

  • WiFi on TouchSmart 600-1350

    I have a wireless network in my home and my desktop (HP TouchSmart 600-1350 Desktop PC) was connected to it and now it is not. I have tried enable the wireless network (not found), I have disabled the ethernet connection (which there is no place to c

  • Dial in landscape

    Hi, I have an iphone 6 plus. I'd like to use my phone in landscape mode whenever possible as my phone is mounted on the windshield of my car horizontally. The problem is that although the main view of the ios can be viewed in landscape mode, the dial

  • Running report 9i on  Oracle 7.3.3 database URGENT

    I have a report with a character field and is supposed to display value with leading zeroes. Eg 0002. The zeroes are displayed when this report is executed against a 9i database. But when I run this report with oracle 7.3.3 database then the zeroes a

  • Nokia 301 not starting

    So i update my 301 single sim over the 3G network. The phone had 3 lines of battery. The update was downloaded, and i hit install, the phone shutdown and started to install it. Then after it installed it (i think) the screen turned white and remained