IPOD recognized by iTunes but songs cannot be added or removed from device

Question

When connecting my iPOD to iTunes, it is recognized by the software. When I click on my iPOD on the menu, it lists all of the songs on the device but they are not bold and highlighted. When I try to delete a song(s) or add song(s) to the device from my Library or Purchased tracks it does not allow me to do so. It is almost as if there is some type of seceurity placed upon the device. Any advice?
Dell   Windows XP  
Dell   Windows XP  

Answer 1

Sounds like your iPod is set for automatic update, in that mode the songs are greyed out and inaccessible. A lock symbol at the bottom of the screen also means that you are in the 'Automatic' update mode
The iPod offers three ways to transfer music from your computer. You can select one of the following update modes from the iPod Preferences menu in iTunes (Edit=>Preferences=>'iPod' tab):
1) Automatically update all songs and playlists. This is the default mode, in which your entire music library, including playlists, is automatically synced to your iPod. If the music library on your computer exceeds the iPod storage capacity, you are prompted to select a different update method.
2) Automatically update selected playlists only. With this option, iTunes automatically copies the playlists you have selected to the iPod when you connect it to the computer.
3) Manually manage songs and playlists. You can also choose to transfer music to the iPod manually. This allows you to drag and drop individual songs and playlists from iTunes to the iPod.