Is there a workaround app for syncing shared POP3 email?

Question

Hello,
I wonder if a lot of families have this problem. I have a POP3 email ,verizon.net, that is our family email shared between my wife and I. I am tired of deleting the same emails from my iPad and my iPhone over and over so I am looking to find a way to set it up like this:
verizon.net email goes to my wife's devices and my devices
when I delete an email, it deletes from all of my devices and none of hers (i have an iPad, macbook, and iPhone)
when she deletes an email it deletes from all of hers and none of mine. (she has an iPhone and macbook)
So its kind of like a POP3 server splitting to two separate IMAP servers;  my wife's and mine.
I have tried automatic forwarding on verizon's end but I can only forward to one address and it causes issues with return addresses not matching when I reply so emails get identified as spam more often. In addition, when I do forward email automatically on verizon's server side (not on the client) it is no longer delivered to the original email account.
We want to avoid changing email addresses and verizon only offers POP3.
Any ideas everyone?

Answer 1

JM140 wrote:
Hello,
when I delete an email, it deletes from all of my devices and none of hers (i have an iPad, macbook, and iPhone)
when she deletes an email it deletes from all of hers and none of mine. (she has an iPhone and macbook)
So its kind of like a POP3 server splitting to two separate IMAP servers;  my wife's and mine.
Any ideas everyone?
Nope, its a POP server acting like a pop server where the settings on each device have it so email is left on the server and only deleted from the devices.
This means all devices can download the email from the server, but its never really removed from the server, only from the devices upon deletion, unless one of the devices is set to have it deleted from the server when its deleted from the device. 
Basically, what you want is not possible, as you want an IMAP functionality on only specific devices. IMAP is designed to sync actions across all devices using the account.  Because basically what happens is actions take place on the server, and then trickle down to the devices.
On POP accounts its the opposite. Actions take place on the Devices and then if configured as such may move up to the server.