Need Help. Unresponsive Nano. help?

Question

Well, a few days ago i was listening to my Nano while i was going to bed. I would turn it off by holding down the play button and the pressing the hold slider to "hold position". It was working perfect before i layed it down on the table near where I sleep.
A few days later, i decide i want to listen to it while i go out and play some tennis, so i try to turn it on in order to see how much charge it has. Next thing i know the black apple screen pops up as normal and i get a folder with a notice sign next to it. So i think, "what the heck?!" and underneath the little notice Icon it gives me this link.
" www.apple.com/support/ipod "
So i go to this link, check out what it means. Try to restart the Nano over and over but it just goes black, and then gives me the Icon and URL and then turns off. I have no idea what to do at that point.
So, i come here to download the new updates and decide to just install the new updates and restore it back to factory settings. So i download the 3-23-06 updates and install, it gives me "error" or something. So i uninstall it. Re-install the same 3-23-06 updates and run it, restart computer and still error. So i say screw it. Uninstall and then go to my Ipod Nano case and get out my old CD with the old updates on it. Install it, restart, let it initialize.
Then i connect my Ipod to my computer via USB and then my Nano then says "do not dissconect" and the circling arrows are going around. So i leave it for about 5 minutes going and when i come back same thing. So i ditch that plan and run the old updates, detects it and tells me that i need to restore. So, i click restore and then let it run and when i come back it says "Can not load Ipod". So then i reset it and try again. Same thing. This is while it still says "do not disconnect". The Battery is Full.
So then i go to "my computer" and see that it detects (I:) Drive. Which is my Ipod. So i click it, and it tells me "the disk in Drive I is not formatted. Format now?". So i click yes, just to see what happens. Then it tells me... "the disk in Drive (I:) can not be formatted" and thats it.
I have no clue what is going on. I might try to connect it to antother computer and see if that helps. Any suggestions?
If needed i can get a movie.

Answer 1

Ok, so now the same screen has been going on for about 10 minutes. I seriously needed this to work, because im going on a trip to see family in a few hours. I guess im going to have to try to listen to my sisters.
I tried it in Disk Mode, I tried it in regular mode.
In Diskmode it says "it is ok to dissconect Ipod, then i put int he USB and it says "do not dissconect". I got to I: Drive and still, cant be read. Everytime i start my Ipod in normal mode i get a black apple logo, and then it gives me a folder with a sign with a exclamation point in it. Beneath that it says "apple.com/support/ipod". It then shuts down, and on some occasions goes to a "do not dissconect" screen, even when its not plugged in.
I have tried everything. I have tried it on 3 different computers and nothing has fixed it. I am about to call Apple Support and see what i can do. This really *****, it was a gift from my girlfriend who i love very much, it means a lot to me to get this fixed. GRR.. My backlight doesnt even turn on.