Ongoing Desktop Manager Sync Setup problem

Question

Hello,
I am having the "Computer has to be connected to Internet" problem in trying to set up syncing for first time. I see this issue all over these boards as well as Crackberry and others. The first response is always referring to the vague and uninformative KB16471 article.  That post is usually followed by several others having the same problem then the thread stops with no resolution. I have turned off firewalls, antivirus etc,removed the 4.7 and installed the 6.0 removed that and installed the 5.0, all were removed with Revo uninstaller deep removal to remove old registry and file remnants verified BDM permission in firewall, looked for registry tweaks found in some responses to no avail,plugged in phone via back panel USB, ran Wireshark and Currports and not finding BDM trying to use 80 and 443, ran Spybot, MalwareBytes, Avast, and Hijack This, I am at my wits end and see no  solution being offered. I would appreciate some insight as this is about to be a deal breaker.
Thanks for your support.
Windows XP Pro
Blackberry 9650
Alltel Service

Answer 1

Does this mean anything to you guys?
[30000] (08/10 15:50:30.765):{0x49C} {IntelliSyncActivation} IntelliSync pre-activateion status: 7
[30000] (08/10 15:50:30.765):{0x49C} {IntelliSyncActivation} Start IntelliSync activation process.
[30000] (08/10 15:50:30.765):{0x49C} {IntelliSyncActivation} Open Internet.
[30000] (08/10 15:50:30.765):{0x49C} {IntelliSyncActivation} Connect Internet, Server Name: Cell Phones, Smartphones & Mobile Phones from BlackBerry.com, Port: 443.
[30000] (08/10 15:50:30.765):{0x49C} {IntelliSyncActivation} Open HTTP request, Object Name: /IntelliSync/service/SwUsageService.
[30000] (08/10 15:50:30.765):{0x49C} {IntelliSyncActivation} Initializing the crypto libary.
[30000] (08/10 15:50:30.796):{0x49C} {IntelliSyncActivation} Add the HTTP header.
[30000] (08/10 15:50:30.796):{0x49C} {IntelliSyncActivation} Send the HTTP request.
[30000] (08/10 15:50:32.500):{0x49C} {IntelliSyncActivation} Query the HTTP Info.
[30000] (08/10 15:50:32.500):{0x49C} {IntelliSyncActivation} HTTP response OK.
[30000] (08/10 15:50:32.531):{0x49C} {IntelliSyncActivation} Failed to activation, error message: <soap:Envelope xmlns:soap="http://schemas.xmlsoap.org/soap/envelope/"><soap:Body><ns1rocessSwUsageResponse xmlns:ns1="http://intellisync.rim.com/"><return>true</return></ns1rocessSwUsageResponse></soap:Body></soap:Envelope>.
[30000] (08/10 15:50:32.546):{0x49C} {IntelliSyncActivation} IntelliSync post-activateion status: 6