Problems sharing iCloud calendars

My girlfriend and I both have iPhone 4s and we both use my mac with different logins. I also use an ipad first generation. We have different iCloud accounts and have shared our individual calendars wit each other. We use to do this with google, but switched to icloud.
The problems:
1. When my girlfriend creates and event and invites me to it, iCloud creates and event in her calendar and mine. This is a good thing. However, when I create an event and invite her to it, iCloud only creates the event in my calendar, not hers.
2. Whenever my girlfriend makes a change in her calender, even to an event I am not invited too, I get an email telling me she made a change. This also works in reverse when I change events in my calender. Can we stop the emails except for events the other is invited too?
Please help, I want to keep using iCloud, but these problems are making me consider going back to google

iCloud never ended up working right so I switch our cloud calendar services to google, works great now! Thanks for continuing to suck at cloud computing apple!

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