Translator Widget Mouseover Highlighting - OFF please.

Question

Have an old website that I am trying to make more user friendly for my international customers.  Having the capability to translate the pages appears helpful.  
Google uses some awful masthead that I haven't found a way to shut off.  It rips people away from the site, changing the url to one of theirs.  Not to mention the fact that the whole interface is uber ugly, and so I dumped them.  
I tried the Microsoft Translator Widget... much better.  Clean functionality that leaves only changes the text on your page.
But now attempt to use any of the links on the page: the text block becomes highlighted.  That highlight then generates a box that says "Original Text... blah blah blah."  Both the highlight and the box are quite hideous and distracting.
Have resorted to the following settings: &ctf=false&ui=false&settings=notify , then tested it by changing my browser language preference to Spanish.  Nothing happened, it seems to defeat the whole functionality
of the widget.  
My sandbox page is: http://usedbqqks.com/widgets.html and the MS Translator codes are placed at the end of the body.
Also would love to have more control over the colors, size and initial placement of the widget.  I do realize that the default placement of the widget can be changed by the viewer using their mouse.
Further, I would love the ability to have better control over the list of languages.  The programmer should be able to modify how that list is displayed.  I would suggest the following options: 1. the original language, 2. "my" browser
language, 3 a flag, or 4. some combination of all three.  Example: Español (flag of Spain here) Spanish.  
Thank, Wally.

Answer 1

Thank you for your reply.  Earlier
I had found, read, digested and utilized the given options on the translator customization page that you mention.
I reviewed the languages, want all of them so that part is fine.  I was only interested in ways to
change the FORMAT in which the language list is DISPLAYED.  
The following options would be very useful: the name of each language in 1. the original language, 2. "my"
browser language, 3 a flag, or 4. some combination of all three.  
Example:
Español  Spanish || Français
 French.  
This language display thing is strictly an esthetic issue.  I can live with what you have.
The highlighting problem is a deal-breaker.  Seems a common concern...
(see:
https://social.msdn.microsoft.com/Forums/en-US/030255b0-81d1-4347-8387-969c30c3a551/microsoft-translator-widget-for-websites-disable-tooltips?forum=microsofttranslator&prof=required ) 
I will probably wait to implement translation until Microsoft provides control over when and if highlighting
appears.  Either that or until a less obtrusive third option emerges.  
Thanks again, Wally.