When I send an iMessage to my husband the message is duplicated on my phone.

When I send an iMessage to my husband, the message is duplicated on my phone. How do I change this?

It is possible that your husband's AppleID is somehow associated with your phone. The reason I say this is that in this document
iOS: Troubleshooting Messages - Apple Support
the Opposite may be true regarding this section
If you aren't receiving iMessages across all iOS devices
Go to Settings > Messages > Send & Receive on each iOS device and make sure that you signed in with your Apple ID. You must use the same Apple ID on each device.
Go to Settings > Messages > Send & Receive > You Can Be Reached By iMessage At and make sure that you selected each phone number and email address you want to use with iMessage.
If you linked a phone number to your Apple ID with iMessage and the phone number hasn't appeared, follow these steps.
Sign out of your Apple ID in Settings > Messages > Send & Receive and Settings > FaceTime on all devices.
If you're linking a phone number to an Apple ID, sign in to iMessage on your iPhone first. Then sign in to the rest of your device one by one with iMessage and FaceTime.
Soooo, if you ARE receiving iMessages across all iOS devices - see what I mean?
Make sure that YOU are signed in as in #1, and try it again.
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