When my wife changes contacts on her phone it changes contacts on my phone and vice versa

When my wife or I make changes to our contacts on iphone 4 and 5 it changes the other ones contacts.

On one of your devices, go to Settings > iCloud.  Look at the account.  Whose Apple ID is there?
For which ever of you who is the Apple ID account holder, do nothing.
On the other person's iPhone, go to Settings > iCloud.
Delete the iCloud account, and choose to 'Keep on iPhone' when prompted.
Then, use a different Apple ID for iCloud on your device.
Both of your devices are using the same Apple ID under iCloud (or, alternatively, possibly the same email account on the device) for syncing contacts.  When you do this, the system assumes that the same person is using both devices, and wants to sync Contacts across multiple devices.

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