Why don't the tech's at apple believe me when I tell them I am being monitered without my permission?

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Last login: Wed Sep 14 20:28:35 on console
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localhost:~ cat$ who
cat      console  Sep 14 20:28
cat      ttyp1    Sep 14 20:28
localhost:~ cat$ whois
usage: whois [-aAbdgiIlmQrR6] [-c country-code | -h hostname] [-p port] name ...
localhost:~ cat$ finger
Login    Name                 TTY  Idle  Login  Time   Office  Phone
cat      catherine r.   *con    56  Wed    20:28
cat      catherine r.    p1         Wed    20:28
localhost:~ cat$ whois *con
Whois Server Version 2.0
Domain names in the .com and .net domains can now be registered
with many different competing registrars. Go to http://www.internic.net
for detailed information.
   Server Name: CON.ZZBB.COM
   IP Address: 203.231.42.121
   Registrar: INAMES CO., LTD.
   Whois Server: whois.inames.co.kr
   Referral URL: http://www.inames.co.kr
   Server Name: CON.VENUS.ORDERBOX-DNS.COM
   IP Address: 74.54.56.236
   IP Address: 74.54.56.227
   IP Address: 74.54.56.231
   Registrar: DIRECTI INTERNET SOLUTIONS PVT. LTD. D/B/A PUBLICDOMAINREGISTRY.COM
   Whois Server: whois.PublicDomainRegistry.com
   Referral URL: http://www.PublicDomainRegistry.com
   Server Name: CON.TOM.RU
   Registrar: REGIONAL NETWORK INFORMATION CENTER, JSC DBA RU-CENTER
   Whois Server: whois.nic.ru
   Referral URL: http://www.nic.ru
   Server Name: CON.MERCURY.ORDERBOX-DNS.COM
   IP Address: 67.15.253.251
   IP Address: 67.15.47.189
   IP Address: 67.15.253.220
   Registrar: DIRECTI INTERNET SOLUTIONS PVT. LTD. D/B/A PUBLICDOMAINREGISTRY.COM
   Whois Server: whois.PublicDomainRegistry.com
   Referral URL: http://www.PublicDomainRegistry.com
   Server Name: CON.MARS.ORDERBOX-DNS.COM
   IP Address: 74.52.140.84
   IP Address: 74.52.140.82
   IP Address: 74.52.140.83
   Registrar: DIRECTI INTERNET SOLUTIONS PVT. LTD. D/B/A PUBLICDOMAINREGISTRY.COM
   Whois Server: whois.PublicDomainRegistry.com
   Referral URL: http://www.PublicDomainRegistry.com
   Server Name: CON.MAIYEUBE.NET
   IP Address: 207.218.250.214
   Registrar: MELBOURNE IT, LTD. D/B/A INTERNET NAMES WORLDWIDE
   Whois Server: whois.melbourneit.com
   Referral URL: http://www.melbourneit.com
   Server Name: CON.MAFIAWORLDCONFLICT.COM
   IP Address: 96.125.168.211
   Registrar: DOMAIN.COM, LLC
   Whois Server: whois.domain.com
   Referral URL: http://www.domain.com
   Server Name: CON.KONKAK.COM
   IP Address: 67.214.175.71
   Registrar: TUCOWS.COM CO.
   Whois Server: whois.tucows.com
   Referral URL: http://domainhelp.opensrs.net
   Server Name: CON.KANGX.COM
   IP Address: 210.118.234.6
   Registrar: YESNIC CO. LTD.
   Whois Server: whois.yesnic.com
   Referral URL: http://www.yesnic.com
   Server Name: CON.JCSMEDIA.COM
   IP Address: 216.199.69.35
   Registrar: WILD WEST DOMAINS, INC.
   Whois Server: whois.wildwestdomains.com
   Referral URL: http://www.wildwestdomains.com
   Server Name: CON.HNIP.CO.KR
   Registrar: INAMES CO., LTD.
   Whois Server: whois.inames.co.kr
   Referral URL: http://www.inames.co.kr
   Server Name: CON.ETVILLE.COM
   IP Address: 112.220.108.114
   Registrar: ASADAL, INC.
   Whois Server: whois.asadal.com
   Referral URL: http://www.asadal.com
   Server Name: CON.EARTH.ORDERBOX-DNS.COM
   IP Address: 67.15.253.252
   IP Address: 67.15.47.188
   IP Address: 67.15.253.219
   Registrar: DIRECTI INTERNET SOLUTIONS PVT. LTD. D/B/A PUBLICDOMAINREGISTRY.COM
   Whois Server: whois.PublicDomainRegistry.com
   Referral URL: http://www.PublicDomainRegistry.com
   Server Name: CON.DIABLOIII.PRO
   Registrar: OVH
   Whois Server: whois.ovh.com
   Referral URL: http://www.ovh.com
   Server Name: CON.DELDC.COM
   IP Address: 210.91.181.71
   Registrar: YESNIC CO. LTD.
   Whois Server: whois.yesnic.com
   Referral URL: http://www.yesnic.com
   Server Name: CON.CONFESIONESDESOFIA.COM
   IP Address: 174.121.246.152
   Registrar: MYDOMAIN, INC.
   Whois Server: whois.namesdirect.com
   Referral URL: http://www.namesdirect.com
   Server Name: CON.CAUTO.COM
   IP Address: 12.31.226.135
   Registrar: NETWORK SOLUTIONS, LLC.
   Whois Server: whois.networksolutions.com
   Referral URL: http://www.networksolutions.com
   Server Name: CON.BLAZINGREALMS.COM
   IP Address: 68.67.78.230
   Registrar: OVH
   Whois Server: whois.ovh.com
   Referral URL: http://www.ovh.com
   Server Name: CON.BELLSFERRY.COM
   IP Address: 216.199.69.35
   Registrar: WILD WEST DOMAINS, INC.
   Whois Server: whois.wildwestdomains.com
   Referral URL: http://www.wildwestdomains.com
   Domain Name: CON.NET
   Registrar: UNIVERSAL REGISTRATION SERVICES INC. DBA NEWDENTITY.COM
   Whois Server: whois.newdentity.com
   Referral URL: http://www.newdentity.com
   Name Server: NS1.SEDOPARKING.COM
   Name Server: NS2.SEDOPARKING.COM
   Status: clientDeleteProhibited
   Status: clientTransferProhibited
   Status: clientUpdateProhibited
   Updated Date: 04-may-2011
   Creation Date: 03-may-2003
   Expiration Date: 03-may-2012
   Domain Name: CON.COM
   Registrar: TUCOWS.COM CO.
   Whois Server: whois.tucows.com
   Referral URL: http://domainhelp.opensrs.net
   Name Server: NS1.CON.COM
   Name Server: NS2.CON.COM
   Status: clientTransferProhibited
   Status: clientUpdateProhibited
   Updated Date: 05-nov-2010
   Creation Date: 05-dec-1993
   Expiration Date: 04-dec-2011
>>> Last update of whois database: Thu, 15 Sep 2011 04:25:10 UTC <<<
NOTICE: The expiration date displayed in this record is the date the
registrar's sponsorship of the domain name registration in the registry is
currently set to expire. This date does not necessarily reflect the expiration
date of the domain name registrant's agreement with the sponsoring
registrar.  Users may consult the sponsoring registrar's Whois database to
view the registrar's reported date of expiration for this registration.
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The Registry database contains ONLY .COM, .NET, .EDU domains and
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No match "*con."
localhost:~ cat$
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Answer 1

localhost:~ cat$ who
cat      console  Sep 14 20:28
cat      ttyp1    Sep 14 20:28
so your logged in a user 'cat,' witch is why you have 'cat console'. You have the terminal open, witch is why you see 'cat ttyp1'.
localhost:~ cat$ finger
Login    Name                 TTY  Idle  Login  Time   Office  Phone
cat      catherine ronalds   *con    56  Wed    20:28
cat      catherine ronalds    p1         Wed    20:28
Same thing here.
your logged into user 'cat' with the long name of 'C******** r*****'  "*con"  is again the console. And Again you have the terminal open, witch is why you see p1.
When you log into the computer, the console activate the Finder, Dock, extra.