How can I automatically connect to multiple connecting streams? to have 2 way communications foreach

Question

I need to setup a send stream that will only allow each farID to connect 1 time, and automatically connect to the connector so I ca have 2 way communication.
I learned if in my onpeerconnect function i do this...:
var c:Object = new Object;
c.onPeerConnect = function(subscriber:NetStream):Boolean
   if(ready==ready)
   if(receiveStream==null)
    setupReceiveStream(subscriber.farID);
    return true;
    else
    return false;
it seems to work fine, and they will start a 2 way connection BUT i want to potentially allow multiple connections, and setup multiple receive streams so im trying to com up with a solution to check if its already streaming to the peer. I wish I could just do this:
var c:Object = new Object;
c.onPeerConnect = function(subscriber:NetStream):Boolean
    setupReceiveStream(subscriber.farID);
    return true;
But, for some reason it just keeps returning true over and over and over it doesnt just do it once on the connect, i get something like this:
NetStream.Play.Start
NetStream.Play.Reset
NetStream.Play.Start
NetStream.Play.Reset
NetStream.Play.Start
NetStream.Play.Reset
NetStream.Play.Start
NetStream.Play.Reset
NetStream.Play.Start
NetStream.Play.Reset
NetStream.Play.Start
NetStream.Play.Reset
NetStream.Play.Start
NetStream.Play.Reset
NetStream.Play.Start
NetStream.Play.Reset
NetStream.Play.Start
NetStream.Play.Reset
NetStream.Play.Start
So, heres what im trying to do:
protected function setupSendStream():void
sendStream = new NetStream(netConnection, NetStream.DIRECT_CONNECTIONS);
sendStream.addEventListener(NetStatusEvent.NET_STATUS, sendStreamHandler);
var c:Object = new Object;
c.onPeerConnect = function(subscriber:NetStream):Boolean
var test:Boolean=true;
var THEStream:NetStream = null;
for each (var stream:NetStream in sendStream.peerStreams)
if (stream["farID"] == subscriber.farID)
well=false;
trace("found it!");
if(test)
setupReceiveStream(subscriber.farID);
trace("returned true");
return true;
else
trace("returned false");
return false;
sendStream.client=c;
sendStream.publish("MyChannel");
trace("SETUP SEND STREAM");
cirrusStatus=connectedReady;
But it seems like after it returns true and runs the setup, so i can have 2 way communication, it runs the onpeerconnect function 1 more time after it returns true, and its a return false and then it makes the play fail and it ruins the connection.
Any ideas on how I can listen for connects to my sendStream, then have it get the farID and then connect to that farID?
keep in mind im trying to potentially support multiple connections to my sendstream which i think will be easy, but whats more confusing is having multiple receivestream connections

Answer 1

"Method Three
Create a separate iTunes library for each device. Note:It is important that you make a new iTunes Library file. Do not justmake a copy of your existing iTunes Library file. If iTunes is open,quit it.
This one may work. I searched and searched on the website for something like this, I guess I just didn't search correctly, lol. I will give this a try later. My daughter is not be back for a few weekends, therefore I will have to try the Method 3 when she comes back for the weekend again. "
I forgot to mention that she has a PC at her house that she also syncs to. Would this cause a problem. I am already getting that pop up saying that the iPod is synced to another library (even though she is signed in with her Apple ID to iTunes) and gives the pop up to Cancel, Erase & Sync, or Transfer Purchases. My question arose because she clicked on "Erase & Sync" by mistake when she plugged the iPod to her PC the first time. When the iPod was purchased and setup, it was synced to my PC first. When she went home, she hooked it up to her PC and then she erased it by accident. I was able to restore all the missing stuff yesterday using my PC. However, even after doing that it still told me the next time I hooked it up last night that the iPod was currently synced with a different library. Hopefully, you can help me understand all this. She wants to sync her iPod and also backup her iPod at both places. Both PCs have been authorised. Thanks