Video continues to load after removal

Question

  Below is the function I use to remove the swf which holds an FLVPlayback component and the button that runs the function.  The function  stops the video then removes the swf.  The swf disappears and the sound stops but if I look at the task manager I notice the video is still loading usually at about 1 meg every 5 seconds.  I know I'm supposed to be able to use the closeVideoPlayer method which should stop the netstream but I don't how to make it work.
function goHome(e:MouseEvent):void {
        myMovie.stop();
        this.parent.parent.removeChild(this.parent);
//           myMovie.closeVideoPlayer(0);
        meCombo.removeEventListener(Event.CHANGE, movieSelected);
        return_btn.removeEventListener(MouseEvent.CLICK, goHome);

Answer 1

I'm publishing for fp 9 and this isn't ok.  If I uncomment the closeVodeoPlayer I get
VideoError: 1007: Cannot delete default VideoPlayer
    at fl.video::FLVPlayback/closeVideoPlayer()
    at movies_fla::MainTimeline/goHome()[movies_fla.MainTimeline::frame1:95]
because apparently you can't close an instance of FLVPlayback while it's on stage.
If I leave it commented everything closes fine except the video keeps buffering. The videos I'm running are typically 100 meg and over
so if I'm running a 150 meg video and I decide I've seen enough 5 meg into it it will keep loading till the whole thing is loaded.  I think
the netStream is what I need to stop but I haven't found a way yet.
Oh I overlooked the part about testing online......I'll be back :-)