Help with uninstalling Java in Mavericks

Question

Hi All,  I am running OS X 10.9.1 on a Macbook Air.  I cannot seem to figure out how to uninstall Java.  It is running as a process, yet whenver I kill it, it restarts.  I would like to completely delete it but can't seem to figure out how.  There is no Java control panel or preference pane in system utilities.
Here's what I've tried:
1. Following the instructions at http://www.java.com/en/download/help/mac_uninstall_java.xml and moving JavaAppletPlugin.plugin to the trash and restarting, Java is still running according to Activity Monitor.
2. Installing Java 7 again - still no control panel or preference pane in system utilities
3. Searching library for everything java related and throwing it in the trash, restarting, still no luck.
I'm pretty much out of ideas.   It's using a fair amount of CPU time and since I'm not running any apps that need it, I want it gone.
Thanks in advance!

Answer 1

I had an attempt but had some problems. I decided to use JBuilder's Design function and get to display my open --> file menu bar. The code is implemented but the bar doesn't show up.
If I do it my way by using the following code it manages to work:
// Menu Bar
MenuBar mbar = new MenuBar();
setMenuBar(mbar);
Menu file = new Menu("File");
MenuItem item1, item2, item3;
file.add(item1 = new MenuItem("New"));
file.add(item2 = new MenuItem("Open"));
file.add(item3 = new MenuItem("Close"));
mbar.add(file);
Any reason why? Sorry for the n00b questions.