How to get black text in window title

Question

I have difficulty distinguishing between active windows and inactive windows because the title text for both is a shade of gray. How can I theme OS X Lion to use black text  scrollbar, and controls for active windows; gray for inactive windows?
I am tired of having to click on a window to ensure that it is active.

Answer 1

Ha, I had the graphite theme, so they were gray. While they were darker than an inactive window, they still didn't call attention to themselves. I've switched to blue and now they're in color. Not sure why they are called "blue" and "graphite" as the only difference I notice is the color buttons, none of which are blue, for blue and the gray buttons for graphite. I still don't usually look over in that direction; I'm looking at the title to see if its the window I'm interested it. Still, that gets a helpful.
Still, I'd really like black text as I find gray text harder to read. And the back/forward buttons in Firefox don't change enough between active and inactive. I'd like that to be really black. (I'm told that OS X theming interferes with being able to change that; not sure if it's true.)
As for the active one usually being in front, that's assuming that the active one is taking up a majority of the real estate. I often have two windows side-by-side. Further, stickies don't have the three buttons, so it's no help when they're active (and there's a bug - which I've reported - that sometimes makes them inadvertently active).