Make a JButton look like it is pressed

Question

I am setting up a JButton so that it operates like normal when you left click but if you right click it should act like it is being pressed until the next time you right click it.
My problem is that when it is right click activated I want it to paint as if it were armed. When I setArmed and setPressed to true, it will look good so long as the mouse is over the button but not when the mouse leaves the area of the button.
I've made a little hack that changes the background color to the color that is used when armed and it looks OK, but the border isn't drawn right. I am looking for a way to make the button look exactly like it does when held normally. Thanks in advance.
import javax.swing.*;
import java.awt.*;
import java.awt.event.*;
public class PolledButton extends JButton implements MouseListener
   protected boolean state;
   protected boolean rightClicked;
   protected Color enabledColor = new Color(153, 153, 153);
   public PolledButton()
      super();
      state = false;
      rightClicked = false;
      addMouseListener(this);
   public boolean getState()
      if(rightClicked) return true;
      boolean temp = state;
      state = false;
      return temp;
   public void mouseClicked(MouseEvent e)
      if(e.getButton() != MouseEvent.BUTTON3)
         System.out.println("Not a right click!");
         if(!rightClicked) state = true;
      else
         System.out.println("Right click!");
         if(rightClicked)
            System.out.println("Exiting hold");
            rightClicked = false;
            state = false;
            super.model.setArmed(false);
            super.model.setPressed(false);
            setBackground(Color.lightGray);
         else
            System.out.println("Entering hold");
            rightClicked = true;
            state = true;
            super.model.setArmed(true);
            super.model.setPressed(true);
            setBackground(enabledColor);
   public void mouseEntered(MouseEvent e)
   public void mouseExited(MouseEvent e)
   public void mousePressed(MouseEvent e)
   public void mouseReleased(MouseEvent e)
}

Answer 1

I believe using color is not the right approach
try this out
import javax.swing.*;
import java.awt.*;
import java.awt.event.*;
public class PolledButton extends JButton implements MouseListener
protected boolean state;
protected boolean rightClicked;
public PolledButton()
     super();
     state = false;
     rightClicked = false;
     addMouseListener(this);
public boolean getState()
     if(rightClicked) return true;
     boolean temp = state;
     state = false;
     return temp;
public void mouseClicked(MouseEvent e)
     if(e.getButton() != MouseEvent.BUTTON3)
          System.out.println("Not a right click!");
          if(!rightClicked) state = true;
     else
          System.out.println("Right click!");
          if(rightClicked)
               System.out.println("Exiting hold");
               rightClicked = false;
               state = false;
               super.model.setArmed(false);
               super.model.setPressed(false);
          else
               System.out.println("Entering hold");
               rightClicked = true;
               state = true;
               super.model.setArmed(true);
               super.model.setPressed(true);
public void mouseEntered(MouseEvent e)
public void mouseExited(MouseEvent e)
     if(rightClicked)
          super.model.setArmed(true);
          super.model.setPressed(true);
public void mousePressed(MouseEvent e)
public void mouseReleased(MouseEvent e)