Re: similar method for get correct position mouse in node

Question

The MouseEvent itself has the data you need to compute similar coordinates that the SwingUtilities method does:
e.getX(); e.getY(); // coordinates of the mouse relative to the component on which the event was fired
e.getSceneX(); e.getSceneY(); // coordinates of the mouse in the Scene
e.getScreenX(); e.getScreenY(); // coordinates of the mouse on the Screen
If you want to get the row in a ListView (or TableView) for a mouse event, however, I would recommend setting a custom cell factory that handles the mouse event for each cell:
ListView<T> list  = ... ;
list.setCellFactory(new Callback<ListView<T>, ListCell<T>>() {
     @Override
     public ListCell<T> call(ListView<T> listView) {
          final ListCell<T> cell = new ListCell<T>();
          cell.setOnMouseDragged(new EventHandler<MouseEvent>() {
               @Override
               public void handle(MouseEvent event) {
                    int index = cell.getIndex(); // list index: may be out of range if this is an empty cell
                    T item = cell.getItem(); // Item displayed in the cell: may be null if this is an empty cell
          return cell ;
(I just typed that in here without testing: it may have typos. Obviously replace T with the type for your ListView.)

Answer 1

The only way I know to do that is to implement a full drag and drop and use the setOnDragOver handler on the cell. Something like:
      list.setCellFactory(new Callback<ListView<T>, ListCell<T>>() {
            @Override
            public ListCell<T> call(ListView<T> listView) {
                final ListCell<T> cell = new ListCell<>();
                cell.setOnDragDetected(new EventHandler<MouseEvent>() {
                    @Override
                    public void handle(MouseEvent event) {
                        if (cell.getItem() != null) {
                            Dragboard db = cell.startDragAndDrop(TransferMode.MOVE);
                            ClipboardContent cc = new ClipboardContent();
                            cc.put(dataFormat, cell.getIndex());
                            db.setContent(cc);
                cell.setOnDragOver(new EventHandler<DragEvent>() {
                    @Override
                    public void handle(DragEvent event) {
                        if (cell.getItem() != null) {
                            System.out.println(cell.getIndex());
                return cell;
You may want to do other things with the drag too (setOnDragDropped to process when the drag is ended on a cell, etc.)